Category: marriage
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Shared custody during Covid19
If sharing custody wasn’t already difficult enough to navigate.. now let’s add Coronavirus into the mix! Y’all may be wondering why coronavirus has anything to do with shared custody, but it has a whole lot to do with it. There’s no saying what happens when my children are with their father half the week any […]
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It actually does get better!
It really does! Everything gets better.Today, I have things I prayed for for years.Sure, I am not where I want to be quite yet, but I am so much closer that where I was.In 2013, My ex Husband had another affair and left me after 6 years. Which I am grateful for now! One of […]
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I have been keeping a secret from y’all
I’ll be honest.. I had no intention of telling anyone for a while. My Husband and I felt like we wanted this moment to be just ours and not anyone else’s. We didn’t want the judgement or opinions, but my sweet adorable daughter outed is on Instagram, so I am forced to say it- we […]
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The journey to find myself
The woman I am today, is a complete 360° from the woman I used to be. The girl I used to be. Who I am today was not an easy journey to get to. As a child you don’t know who you are.. you have ideas of who you are and what person you want […]
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Hello 2020
Oh my gosh, where did 2019 go!? I swear it was just 2019 yesterday.. *WINK* 2019 was good to my family. Sure, we had our struggles, but none of that mattered. None of that even made an imprint because the blessing outweighed the issues. In 2019, I GRADUATED Penn Foster High School one year early-with […]
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Overcoming abandonment issues
For most of my life, I struggled with abandonment issues. I never knew when the wave of sadness was going to hit or what exactly would trigger my fear of abandonment. It could’ve been a song, a sound, a person, a laugh, a circumstance, an event, a picture, a show, a smell, someone walking hand […]
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How many kids is too many?
Hello everyone! I felt like it would be fun to write an introduction in myself, so you know who it is that has been writing to you! In my opinion, the only people to discuss large families, are those who large families. I have a large family, and my hubby and I don’t plan on […]
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Growth through pain
I was married for seven years. With this man, we share three children together. With this man I have been to Hell and back over and over again. With endless court dates, walking on egg shells, countless affairs, lying, a secret life, malicious intentions, narcissistic abuse, and abandonment all on his end and countless tears […]
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Custody battles and an ugly divorce
This post is simply my opinion. I will not ever reveal who my ex is in order to protect my children, so please do not ask. Y’all, let me start this by first saying that I simply can not detail everything how I would like to in just one blog post regarding my experiences with […]
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“How can you afford so many kids!?”
“How can you afford so many kids?” And “you want more kids!? Why!? You already have enough!”.. sadly, those are questions that automatically come to my Family and I in a daily basis. I knew fairly early that I wanted a big family. And once I have my first, I was obsessed. I wanted more! […]
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Not a perfect Wife
I will be the first to admit that I am not a perfect Wife. I will never feel like I am a perfect Wife. But I feel like it can be good to feel that way. It reminds you to keep striving to be the perfect Wife. It helps me stay focused on what my […]
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Army wife pt 2
As you are already aware, the time my Husband was gone last year for BCT/AIT was rough! Five and a half months didn’t seem like it would feel like eternity… yet somehow it did. My marble jars helped a little, I’d go to the mail box every day in hopes of getting a letter from […]
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