If sharing custody wasn’t already difficult enough to navigate.. now let’s add Coronavirus into the mix! Y’all may be wondering why coronavirus has anything to do with shared custody, but it has a whole lot to do with it. There’s no saying what happens when my children are with their father half the week any… Continue reading Shared custody during Covid19
My soulmate It really does! Everything gets better.Today, I have things I prayed for for years.Sure, I am not where I want to be quite yet, but I am so much closer that where I was.In 2013, My ex Husband had another affair and left me after 6 years. Which I am grateful for now!… Continue reading It actually does get better!
I’ll be honest.. I had no intention of telling anyone for a while. My Husband and I felt like we wanted this moment to be just ours and not anyone else’s. We didn’t want the judgement or opinions, but my sweet adorable daughter outed is on Instagram, so I am forced to say it- we… Continue reading I have been keeping a secret from y’all
The woman I am today, is a complete 360° from the woman I used to be. The girl I used to be. Who I am today was not an easy journey to get to. As a child you don’t know who you are.. you have ideas of who you are and what person you want… Continue reading The journey to find myself
2020 baby! Oh my gosh, where did 2019 go!? I swear it was just 2019 yesterday.. *WINK* 2019 was good to my family. Sure, we had our struggles, but none of that mattered. None of that even made an imprint because the blessing outweighed the issues. In 2019, I GRADUATED Penn Foster High School one… Continue reading Hello 2020
Truth For most of my life, I struggled with abandonment issues. I never knew when the wave of sadness was going to hit or what exactly would trigger my fear of abandonment. It could’ve been a song, a sound, a person, a laugh, a circumstance, an event, a picture, a show, a smell, someone walking… Continue reading Overcoming abandonment issues
Hello everyone! I felt like it would be fun to write an introduction in myself, so you know who it is that has been writing to you! In my opinion, the only people to discuss large families, are those who large families. I have a large family, and my hubby and I don’t plan on… Continue reading How many kids is too many?
I was married for seven years. With this man, we share three children together. With this man I have been to Hell and back over and over again. With endless court dates, walking on egg shells, countless affairs, lying, a secret life, malicious intentions, narcissistic abuse, and abandonment all on his end and countless tears… Continue reading Growth through pain
This post is simply my opinion. I will not ever reveal who my ex is in order to protect my children, so please do not ask. Y'all, let me start this by first saying that I simply can not detail everything how I would like to in just one blog post regarding my experiences with… Continue reading Custody battles and an ugly divorce
“How can you afford so many kids?” And “you want more kids!? Why!? You already have enough!”.. sadly, those are questions that automatically come to my Family and I in a daily basis. I knew fairly early that I wanted a big family. And once I have my first, I was obsessed. I wanted more!… Continue reading “How can you afford so many kids!?”
I will be the first to admit that I am not a perfect Wife. I will never feel like I am a perfect Wife. But I feel like it can be good to feel that way. It reminds you to keep striving to be the perfect Wife. It helps me stay focused on what my… Continue reading Not a perfect Wife
As you are already aware, the time my Husband was gone last year for BCT/AIT was rough! Five and a half months didn't seem like it would feel like eternity... yet somehow it did. My marble jars helped a little, I'd go to the mail box every day in hopes of getting a letter from… Continue reading Army wife pt 2
My Husband is a mans man. True definition of a wonderful and manly man! He would help anyone in need, has such an upbeat attitude towards life, and is very adaptable to moving.. he's done so much in life, and is only 33! He breezed through High School, went to College and played Basketball for… Continue reading Army Wife part 1
Hey babes! Today I decided I wanted to discuss my overwhelming fear of heights. Like I'd drive 1,000 miles instead of flying-having panic attacks when off-roading-hyperventilating and fainting on planes kind of fear! My Husband is a true mans man. Outdoorsy, Mr Fix It mans man. He loves being in the mountains, and I do… Continue reading Let’s talk fear…
This is not a sponsored post For years I have swayed between starting a blog, and not. To be honest, this scares me. You have to be vulnerable, raw, honest and open to receive criticism. Those things can be scary! But, I have decided that enough is enough. No more being scared! No more feeling… Continue reading This is Us