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Shared custody during Covid19

If sharing custody wasn’t already difficult enough to navigate.. now let’s add Coronavirus into the mix! Y’all may be wondering why coronavirus has anything to do with shared custody, but it has a whole lot to do with it. There’s no saying what happens when my children are with their father half the week any… Continue reading Shared custody during Covid19

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It actually does get better!

My soulmate It really does! Everything gets better.Today, I have things I prayed for for years.Sure, I am not where I want to be quite yet, but I am so much closer that where I was.In 2013, My ex Husband had another affair and left me after 6 years. Which I am grateful for now!… Continue reading It actually does get better!

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I have been keeping a secret from y’all

I’ll be honest.. I had no intention of telling anyone for a while. My Husband and I felt like we wanted this moment to be just ours and not anyone else’s. We didn’t want the judgement or opinions, but my sweet adorable daughter outed is on Instagram, so I am forced to say it- we… Continue reading I have been keeping a secret from y’all

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Overcoming abandonment issues

Truth For most of my life, I struggled with abandonment issues. I never knew when the wave of sadness was going to hit or what exactly would trigger my fear of abandonment. It could’ve been a song, a sound, a person, a laugh, a circumstance, an event, a picture, a show, a smell, someone walking… Continue reading Overcoming abandonment issues

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How many kids is too many?

Hello everyone! I felt like it would be fun to write an introduction in myself, so you know who it is that has been writing to you! In my opinion, the only people to discuss large families, are those who large families. I have a large family, and my hubby and I don’t plan on… Continue reading How many kids is too many?

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Growth through pain

I was married for seven years. With this man, we share three children together. With this man I have been to Hell and back over and over again. With endless court dates, walking on egg shells, countless affairs, lying, a secret life, malicious intentions, narcissistic abuse, and abandonment all on his end and countless tears… Continue reading Growth through pain

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“How can you afford so many kids!?”

“How can you afford so many kids?” And “you want more kids!? Why!? You already have enough!”.. sadly, those are questions that automatically come to my Family and I in a daily basis. I knew fairly early that I wanted a big family. And once I have my first, I was obsessed. I wanted more!… Continue reading “How can you afford so many kids!?”

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Let’s talk fear…

Hey babes! Today I decided I wanted to discuss my overwhelming fear of heights. Like I'd drive 1,000 miles instead of flying-having panic attacks when off-roading-hyperventilating and fainting on planes kind of fear! My Husband is a true mans man. Outdoorsy, Mr Fix It mans man. He loves being in the mountains, and I do… Continue reading Let’s talk fear…