It has been three years since we said I do. And in those years,We learned how to communicate,We learned what a true marriage is,We made a home over and over again(sometimes out of nothing),We fought,We laughed,We cried,We healed,We forgave,We made memories. Sure, over the years we did all those things, but darling.. we did so… Continue reading Happy Anniversary to us

We don’t say blended.. we don’t say step.. we don’t say half and we don’t say non-traditional. We are a family. A while unit.One thing I have learned is that Family isn’t always blood, Family is where you find it. We chose to be a family- we chose to go through this life together. We… Continue reading We don’t say blended..

Over the weekend my Husband and I were speaking. During this innocent conversation, He told me something.. that I have a victims mentality. To some, that could seem harsh.. even cruel. But it wasn’t that at all. It came from such love.. He wasn’t saying that I play the victim.. he was saying that I… Continue reading Feeling your feelings

Not a day goes by that I don’t think about how far we’ve come. Not a moment passes where I don’t wonder how I deserved such an amazing person like yourself. Blessed and gratitude are not even words deep enough to explain my emotions. We are two months away from having been together for seven… Continue reading Finding my forever person wasn’t easy..

I have been a mommy for almost fourteen years now.. At seventeen, I was forced to grow up.Instead of hanging out with friends, I did diapers.Instead of partying, I did feedings.Instead of School, I did laundry.Instead of silence, I soothed a crying baby.Instead of a swimsuit ready body, I had stories marked all over my… Continue reading Becoming a mother changed everything